CWD Daily

July 13, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

Blah, blah, blah.

Sometimes every word I write here seems like drivel. Stupid, inane crap.

Sometimes no one can say anything “helpful” that doesn't sound like a load of dung.

That's depression. Nice words don't cure depression.

You are the only one who can turn it around, and it isn't easy. It's ridiculously difficult. Good thing tomorrow's a fresh opportunity and all that.

Hang on. Get help if you can. And hang on.

CWD Daily is written by Julie Aiken, a layperson whose only authority lies in 40 years of coping with depression. Nothing in the newsletter should be taken as medical advice. Please do no self-diagnose or self-prescribe. Above all, please get help if you need it.

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July 12, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

Get help.

Debt, lack of money, underemployment – all chip away at our sense of self-worth, making the struggle against depression that much more difficult. You may feel like a piece of crap when you have no money and believe you have no prospects.

The bottom line is when you're depressed you are not thinking clearly. Everything is colored by your depression. Including your finances.

It's exhausting!

For free financial counseling, check out Financial Help for the Rest of Us.

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July 11, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

“Dementors are among the foulest creatures that walk this earth. They infest the darkest, filthiest places, they glory in decay and despair, they drain peace, hope, and happiness out of the air around them… Get too near a Dementor and every good feeling, every happy memory will be sucked out of you.”

This is a description of creatures in the Harry Potter books. The creator of this marvelous universe, J.K. Rowling, herself, has suffered from severe depression and admits that to an extent Dementors represent depression.

To drive off Dementors, picture your “Patronus,” the creature that is your protector, a representation of a courageous and tough self that embodies strength or joy or hope to you. (A wolf, a dog, a unicorn, a bird, a bull, a lion...)

Stand tall. Point your wand or the palm of your hand at the Dementors, focus as strongly as you can on a happy memory, and shout “Expecto Patronum!” Your Patronus then launches itself at the Dementors and they disappear.

Give it a try.

HERE J.K. Rowling discusses Depression and Failure.

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July 10, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

“You gotta' take care of what you've gotta' take care of. But sometimes you just have to let it go.”

A weekly anti-depressant! Dr. Ivy is so much fun and truly inspirational!

HERE is a video from August, 2020. (This is on Facebook, so you may have to sign into your account to watch it. She also has a Y o uT ube c hannel.)

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Get Help!

Here are 7 resources with toll-free phone or text numbers for emergency help:

Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (English & Spanish) - 988
Lifeline Crisis Chat: https://988lifeline.org/chat/

Crisis Text Line – US and Canada: text “HOME” to 741741
UK: text “HOME” to 85258 – Ireland: text “HOME” to 50808

The Trevor Project: www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
Crisis/Suicide Intervention for LGBTQ youth under 25, 1-866-488-7386.
Free, confidential, secure – text START to 678-678.

National Domestic Violence Helpline:
1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788 – TTY – 1-800-787-3224
Chat in Spanish from the website: https://espanol.thehotline.org/

Military OneSource – Help for U.S. Military Personnel
Call and talk anytime, 24/7, in Spanish & English – 1-800-342-9647.
TTY/TDD – Dial 711 and give the toll free number 800-342-9647
Live Chat – https://livechat.militaryonesourceconnect.org/chat/

The International Association for Suicide Prevention can link you to hotlines and other resources outside of the USA: https://www.iasp.info/resources/

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration Helpline:
1-800-662-4357 or TTY: 1-800-487-4889
Confidential, free, 24/365 information service, in English and Spanish

July 9, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

Inflammation keeps getting press as a cause of depression.

“The causes of chronic inflammation can vary person to person, but include being overweight, experiencing lots of stress and even breathing polluted air,” Women's Health reported.

Lifestyle choices, like smoking or lack of exercise, also play a role. “Sedentary lifestyle, lack of sleep – we have these repetitive insults that increase longer-term inflammation,” says Jessica Black, M.D., author of The Anti-Inflammatory Diet and Recipe Book.

What foods should you avoid to minimize inflammation?

Transfats
Sugar
White Bread
Milk
MSG
Gluten
Alcohol (more than 1 glass a day)
Omega-6 Fatty Acids (with too few Omega-3's)

So, basically, a common sense mostly vegetarian diet with limited dairy, meat and fish – largely a Mediterranean style diet – is probably the best anti-depression diet.

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July 8, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

Do you sometimes feel like with depression it's one step forward, two steps back? You'll be feeling very positive, like you've been making progress in your battle to get better, and then you'll have a day when you feel like it's hopeless and you'll always be depressed.

That's when your anti-depression techniques need to kick into high gear. But you simply can't muster the energy.

Just try to maintain. Try not to let negative voices in your head tell you you'll never get better. Try to be honest in your internal dialogue:

“I've been making progress but today I feel like it's all for nothing and I'm never going to really feel better. But I don't have to let how I feel today define me. I will try to do one positive thing. As Scarlet would say, tomorrow is another day.”

Remember, tomorrow really was another day for Scarlet O'Hara. She did keep coming back, keep getting up, and keep triumphing, no matter how often she fell.

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July 7, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

It's summer (in the Northern Hemisphere) and that means fresh tomatoes. Tomatoes that taste fantastic!

And a tomato a day is a great anti-depressant regimen.

Tomatoes are just all around great for you, and so versatile. In salads, sandwiches, sauces... Any way you slice it the tomato is a nutritional wonder. (Kind of like the egg.)

So, enjoy a fresh, summer tomato. Even if it doesn't “cure” your depression, it will add some deliciousness to your life!

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July 6, 2021

CWD Daily

Tips for Coping with Depression

If you are in a suicide crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline -
1-800-273-8255.

Tip of the Day

Try a short guided meditation on giving loving kindness to others and taking it in for you, as well.

HERE is a link for one recorded and posted by UCLA.

And HERE are more meditations recorded by the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center.

You can also try THESE excellent 10-minute mindfulness meditations from Calm.com.

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